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);height:43px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-section-separator-spacer\"><div class=\"fusion-section-separator-spacer-height\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-blend:overlay;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-dashed\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:var(--awb-color2);border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:transparent;font-size:23px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:3px;padding:3px;margin-top:-1.5px\"><i class=\"fa-angle-double-down fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:var(--awb-color2);\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-dashed\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;border-color:var(--awb-color2);border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-content-alignment:justify;\"><p>C\u2019\u00e8 un tempo sospeso in cui i sogni di ieri si scontrano con le aspettative di domani, un tempo nato per costruire senza la certezza di avere gli strumenti adatti.<\/p>\n<p>Era il 1967 quando Dustin Hoffman, nei panni di Benjamin Braddock in <em>Il laureato<\/em>, mostrava insofferenza verso il futuro che lo attendeva.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c8 come se partecipassi a un gioco con delle regole che per me non hanno senso: perch\u00e9 le ha fatte della gente sbagliata\u201d diceva, poi correggendosi: \u201cNo, anzi: non le fa nessuno. Sembra che si facciano da se stesse\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che sembrava un simbolo antecedente per la classe presessantottina torna, generazione dopo generazione, a prendere significato. \u00c8 come se la vita avesse gi\u00e0 messo in conto delle regole non scritte, che si vanno a insinuare nell\u2019esperienza di ognuno e imponesse loro di rispettarle con sommaria rassegnazione. Parliamo di convenzioni sociali nate nel tempo, frutto di un accordo implicito tra individui all\u2019interno di una comunit\u00e0. Le aspettative che gravano su determinate tappe evolutive non sono fenomeni isolati, ma il riflesso di un sistema condiviso, creato per dare ordine a una realt\u00e0 complessa e spesso caotica.<br \/>\nSofia, 21 anni ammette:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u00abSento il respiro pesante per il senso di colpa quando dedico del tempo a me stessa, anche solo per mangiare o dormire, perch\u00e9 sento di perdere la presa su tutti gli obiettivi, le aspirazioni e i sogni che mi sono imposta. Sento di sbagliare ogni volta che decido di rimandare un esame al prossimo appello o di prendermi qualche giorno per \u201cstaccare\u201d\u00bb.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sottostare a certi limiti, seppur faticoso, a volte pu\u00f2 sembrare l\u2019unico modo per gestire la vita quotidiana in modo pi\u00f9 sostenibile. Forse \u00e8 per questo che ci imponiamo cos\u00ec tanto: perch\u00e9 vivere senza regole significa affrontare una confusione che pu\u00f2 facilmente trasformarsi in smarrimento.<br \/>\nNella terra di mezzo in cui i termini \u201cgiovani\u201d e \u201cadulti\u201d si fondono, alcuni studi psicologici rilevano il fenomeno della \u201ccrisi del quarto di secolo\u201d o \u201cdel quarto di vita\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Secondo una revisione scientifica che ha analizzato 14 studi pubblicati tra il 2013 e il 2023, sono diversi i fattori \u2013 interni ed esterni \u2013 che possono innescare quel senso di smarrimento tipico della crisi del quarto di vita. Sul piano interno, entrano in gioco elementi come l\u2019autoefficacia percepita, la motivazione, l\u2019autostima, il talento, la ricerca di senso, la spiritualit\u00e0, l\u2019ansia per il futuro o la pressione nel dover raggiungere uno scopo preciso entro una certa et\u00e0. Sul versante esterno, invece, pesano variabili concrete come l\u2019et\u00e0 anagrafica, il genere, la qualit\u00e0 delle relazioni e della rete sociale, la difficolt\u00e0 nel trovare un impiego stabile o il desiderio di indipendenza economica, alimentando la sensazione di essere in ritardo rispetto ai coetanei. I ventenni intervistati in uno studio recente parlano apertamente di frustrazione, delusione, incertezza: il 43% di loro si dice estremamente preoccupato per la propria capacit\u00e0 di \u201csopravvivere\u201d da adulti. Non si tratta solo di una fase passeggera, ma di una sfida psicologica che pu\u00f2 influenzare il benessere anche nei dodici mesi dopo la laurea.<\/p>\n<p>Uno studio condotto su studenti universitari in Grecia ha mostrato come la procrastinazione non sia semplicemente un&#8217;abitudine negativa, ma possa agire come una vera e propria strategia di difesa psicologica. Rimandare compiti o decisioni importanti pu\u00f2 servire a proteggere la persona dall\u2019ansia, dalla paura del fallimento o dal senso di inadeguatezza che spesso accompagnano queste situazioni.<br \/>\nI giovani coinvolti nello studio riferivano di procrastinare soprattutto quando si trovavano di fronte a pressioni emotive difficili da gestire, come l\u2019incertezza legata al futuro o il timore di non riuscire a raggiungere gli obiettivi prefissati. Procrastinare, in questo senso, diventa un modo per \u201cmettere in pausa\u201d temporaneamente questi stati emotivi, creando una sorta di spazio protetto dove non dover affrontare immediatamente la tensione o il disagio. Questo meccanismo pu\u00f2 per\u00f2 trasformarsi in un circolo vizioso, perch\u00e9 pi\u00f9 si rimanda, pi\u00f9 cresce la pressione e il senso di colpa, alimentando ulteriormente l\u2019ansia.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abL\u2019assoluta possibilit\u00e0 di ogni cosa, l\u2019incapacit\u00e0 di scegliere e la paura che ogni scelta sia definitiva e irrevocabile, e che possa plasmare per sempre la vita e l\u2019esistenza\u00bb, \u00e8 quello che preoccupa di pi\u00f9 Artons, 23 anni.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u00abLa cosa peggiore \u00e8 la fine di una struttura rigida e obbligatoria. Quella mancanza di scelta o opinione sulla propria istruzione, che tanto pesa agli adolescenti, \u00e8 proprio ci\u00f2 che pi\u00f9 mi manca in questo periodo\u00bb.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Cos\u00ec si torna a essere sopraffatti dal potere delle scelte, affannandosi nella ricerca delle risposte giuste, quelle capaci di farci sentire pi\u00f9 interi, meno manchevoli. Si finisce per mordersi la coda, ricordando con nostalgia i tempi in cui qualcun altro decideva per noi e bastava seguire un copione. Forse, per\u00f2, questo \u00e8 il momento di provare a guardare alle possibilit\u00e0 come opportunit\u00e0, pi\u00f9 che come minacce. Non tanto perch\u00e9 il futuro sia incerto \u2014 e questa sia l\u2019unica certezza che abbiamo \u2014 ma perch\u00e9, forse, sbagliare \u00e8 l\u2019unico modo per avvicinarsi a quelle risposte che tanto ci mettono in crisi.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-has-icon fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:50px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:var(--awb-color3);border-color:var(--awb-color3);border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><span class=\"icon-wrapper\" style=\"border-color:transparent;font-size:23px;width: 1.75em; height: 1.75em;border-width:1px;padding:1px;margin-top:-0.5px\"><i class=\"fa-chalkboard-teacher fas\" style=\"font-size: inherit;color:var(--awb-color3);\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:var(--awb-color3);border-color:var(--awb-color3);border-top-width:1px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p><strong>Fonti:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.2147\/PRBM.S438866\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hasyim, F. F., Setyowibowo, H., &amp; Purba, F. D. (2024). <em>Factors contributing to quarter life crisis on early adulthood: A systematic literature review. Psychology Research and Behavior Management,<\/em> 17, 1\u201312.<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/02673843.2022.2070193\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Palaia, A., Xypolytas, G., &amp; Pezirkianidis, C. (2022). <em>Exploring the psychological difficulties of university students in Greece: A qualitative study. International Journal of Adolescence and Youth,<\/em> 27(1), 491\u2013503.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pressioni sociali, scelte invadenti e paure invisibili: diventare adulti sembra una sfida impossibile. Ma cosa succede quando smettiamo di seguire il copione che ci \u00e8 stato imposto?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":1617,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[53,54],"autore":[162],"class_list":["post-683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uni-verso","tag-crescita-personale","tag-salute-mentale","autore-sonia-manna"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/683","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=683"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/683\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3424,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/683\/revisions\/3424"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1617"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=683"},{"taxonomy":"autore","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studentmag.unipr.it\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/autore?post=683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}